There is always the potential for the first time to be the last time. But, it also takes two to tango, so YOU have some control over the outcome of any tryst. You gave him the cookies and now you are worried to death that he won’t call. Instead of worrying, ask yourself a few questions.
1. Do YOU want him to call? If for whatever reason you don’t , then no need to stress. Get out there and find someone else. Men are not solely responsible for what becomes of a sexual relationship. If the sex was bad and you don’t feel like playing teacher, on to the next.
2. Did we have sex too soon? I don’t think there is a “too soon” in adulthood. Within five minutes of laying eyes on each other might be too soon, but even that’s relative. You can feel a connection after two months and the same after two weeks. In either case, he could stop calling after you give up the goods!
3. Was I bad in bed? Well, if you were; examine why. Do you need some accessories from ToyClosetNYC.com? Seriously, wack sex is relative to the receiver. Not all men require bedroom acrobatics each and every time. And guess what? They are scared to death about their performance too. Don’t overthink! You are supposed to enjoy, bask in the afterglow, rinse and repeat.
Still, we ask, “Will he call?” Does it matter who calls who? You are just as capable as dialing a phone as he. So, call him, ONCE maybe twice! Trust me; we’ve ALL stared at the phone, willing it to ring. In my experience, it doesn’t work. So, make the first call. If he doesn’t call back, he’s a jerk. Just kidding. Do not allow your friends to convince you to keep calling because he could have been in Alaska with spotty cell service, the dog ate his blackberry, or any other ridiculous excuse the peanut gallery can devise. Bottom line, there is nothing you can do.
There will be one night stands, long-term relationships, and every grey area in between. Unfortunately, you have to bed a few frogs to get to the prince. No call = Frog Get back out there and look for your prince!
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